fix Vue node widgets should be in disabled state if their slots are connected with a link (#5834)

## Summary

Fixes https://github.com/Comfy-Org/ComfyUI_frontend/issues/5692 by
making widget link connection status trigger on change so Vue widgets
with connected links could properly switch to the `disabled` state when
they are implicitly converted to inputs.

## Changes

- **What**: Added `node:slot-links:changed` event tracking and reactive
slot data synchronization for Vue widgets

```mermaid
graph TD
    A[Widget Link Change] --> B[NodeInputSlot.link setter]
    B --> C{Is Widget Input?}
    C -->|Yes| D[Trigger slot-links:changed]
    C -->|No| E[End]
    D --> F[Graph Event Handler]
    F --> G[syncNodeSlotData]
    G --> H[Update Vue Reactive Data]
    H --> I[Widget Re-render]
    
    style A fill:#f9f9f9,stroke:#333,color:#000
    style I fill:#f9f9f9,stroke:#333,color:#000
```

## Review Focus

Widget reactivity performance with frequent link changes and event
handler memory management in graph operations.

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src/renderer/extensions/vueNodes/widgets/components/WidgetInputNumberInput.vue

@@ -90,6 +90,7 @@ const buttonTooltip = computed(() => {
         :step="stepValue"
         :use-grouping="useGrouping"
         :class="cn(WidgetInputBaseClass, 'w-full text-xs')"
+        :aria-label="widget.name"
         :pt="{
           incrementButton:
             '!rounded-r-lg bg-transparent border-none hover:bg-zinc-500/30 active:bg-zinc-500/40',