Fix ck4inductor conv instance parsing for NumGroupsToMerge
parameter (#6434)
## Summary
- Add `num_groups_to_merge` field to `CKGroupedConvFwdOp` dataclass to
match the new (#4273) `NumGroupsToMerge` template parameter added to
`DeviceGroupedConvFwdMultipleABD_Xdl_CShuffle_V3`
- Enable inductor tests by default in Jenkins CI
## Test plan
- [x] Built wheel without patch: `test_gen_conv_instances` fails with
`TypeError: takes from 47 to 50 positional arguments but 51 were given`
- [x] Built wheel with patch: `test_gen_conv_instances` passes
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