feat(isolation): process isolation for custom nodes via pyisolate

Adds opt-in process isolation for custom nodes using pyisolate's
bwrap sandbox and JSON-RPC bridge. Each isolated node pack runs in
its own child process with zero-copy tensor transfer via shared memory.

Core infrastructure:
- CLI flag --use-process-isolation to enable isolation
- Host/child startup fencing via PYISOLATE_CHILD env var
- Manifest-driven node discovery and extension loading
- JSON-RPC bridge between host and child processes
- Shared memory forensics for leak detection

Proxy layer:
- ModelPatcher, CLIP, VAE, and ModelSampling proxies
- Host service proxies (folder_paths, model_management, progress, etc.)
- Proxy base with automatic method forwarding

Execution integration:
- Extension wrapper with V3 hidden param mapping
- Runtime helpers for isolated node execution
- Host policy for node isolation decisions
- Fenced sampler device handling and model ejection parity

Serializers for cross-process data transfer:
- File3D (GLB), PLY (structured + gaussian), NPZ (streaming frames),
  VIDEO (VideoFromFile + VideoFromComponents) serializers
- data_type flag in SerializerRegistry for type-aware dispatch
- Isolated get_temp_directory() fence

New core save nodes:
- SavePLY and SaveNPZ with comfytype registrations (Ply, Npz)

DynamicVRAM compatibility:
- comfy-aimdo early init gated by isolation fence

Tests:
- Integration and policy tests for isolation lifecycle
- Manifest loader, host policy, proxy, and adapter unit tests

Depends on: pyisolate >= 0.9.2

server.py

@@ -3,7 +3,6 @@ import sys
 import asyncio
 import traceback
 import time
-
 import nodes
 import folder_paths
 import execution
@@ -196,6 +195,8 @@ def create_block_external_middleware():
 class PromptServer():
     def __init__(self, loop):
         PromptServer.instance = self
+        if loop is None:
+            loop = asyncio.get_event_loop()
 
         self.user_manager = UserManager()
         self.model_file_manager = ModelFileManager()