Make string conversion stricter (#695)

* Make string conversion stricter

The string conversion logic added in PR #624 for all std::basic_strings
was derived from the old std::wstring logic, but that was underused and
turns out to have had a bug in accepting almost anything convertible to
unicode, while the previous std::string logic was much stricter.  This
restores the previous std::string logic by only allowing actual unicode
or string types.

Fixes #685.

* Added missing 'requires numpy' decorator

(I forgot that the change to a global decorator here is in the
not-yet-merged Eigen PR)

tests/test_numpy_array.cpp

@@ -150,4 +150,9 @@ test_initializer numpy_array([](py::module &m) {
             "array_t<double>"_a=py::array_t<double>(o)
         );
     });
+
+    // Issue 685: ndarray shouldn't go to std::string overload
+    sm.def("issue685", [](std::string) { return "string"; });
+    sm.def("issue685", [](py::array) { return "array"; });
+    sm.def("issue685", [](py::object) { return "other"; });
 });