enum_: move most functionality to a non-template implementation

This commit addresses an inefficiency in how enums are created in
pybind11. Most of the enum_<> implementation is completely generic --
however, being a template class, it ended up instantiating vast amounts
of essentially identical code in larger projects with many enums.

This commit introduces a generic non-templated helper class that is
compatible with any kind of enumeration. enum_ then becomes a thin
wrapper around this new class.

The new enum_<> API is designed to be 100% compatible with the old one.

tests/test_pickling.py

@@ -34,3 +34,9 @@ def test_roundtrip_with_dict(cls_name):
     assert p2.value == p.value
     assert p2.extra == p.extra
     assert p2.dynamic == p.dynamic
+
+
+def test_enum_pickle():
+    from pybind11_tests import enums as e
+    data = pickle.dumps(e.EOne, 2)
+    assert e.EOne == pickle.loads(data)